<ul> <li>not being stimulated sufficiently</li> <li>worrying about sexual performance</li> <li>mood disorders, such as <a href="/condition/stress-anxiety-depression/">depression</a></li> <li>problems with physical health</li> <li>lack of knowledge or fear of sex</li> <li>a previous traumatic sexual experience</li> <li>problems in the relationship</li> <li>the <a href="/condition/menopause/">menopause</a></li> </ul>

What can cause orgasm problems in women?

Orgasm problems can be: <ul> <li>primary: a woman has never had an orgasm</li> <li>secondary: she has had orgasms in the past, but can't have one now</li> </ul> Some women don't need an orgasm to enjoy sex. However, for other women and their partners, being unable to have an orgasm can be a problem. According to the Sexual Advice Association, sexual problems, including orgasm issues, affect around 50% of women and become more common as women get older. ::: body-ad-desktop zones:: 232632,232627,232640 types:: 163 disclaimer:: AD typeFilter:: native_ad adCount:: 1 ::: ::: body-ad-mobile zones:: 232632,232627,232642 types:: 5,163 disclaimer:: ADVERTISEMENT typeFilter:: display/native_ad adCount:: 1 :::

When can orgasm problems start? 

If you're unable to have an orgasm, go to a genitourinary medicine (GUM) clinic or see your doctor. They can check for any physical reasons that may be causing the problem. If the cause is psychological, it may help to see a sex therapist or doctor. Your doctor can refer you, or you can see one privately. Look for a therapist who is a member of the College of Sexual and Relationship Therapists (COSRT) or a doctor from the Institute of Psychosexual Medicine. There's more information about orgasms and other sexual problems on our page on <a href="/condition/goodsex-femalesexualdysfunction/">female sexual problems</a>.

Where to get help if you have orgasm problems 



- not being stimulated sufficiently
- worrying about sexual performance
- mood disorders, such as [depression](/condition/stress-anxiety-depression/)
- problems with physical health
- lack of knowledge or fear of sex
- a previous traumatic sexual experience
- problems in the relationship
- the [menopause](/condition/menopause/)

## When can orgasm problems start? 

Orgasm problems can be:

- primary: a woman has never had an orgasm
- secondary: she has had orgasms in the past, but can't have one now

Some women don't need an orgasm to enjoy sex. However, for other women and their partners, being unable to have an orgasm can be a problem.

According to the Sexual Advice Association, sexual problems, including orgasm issues, affect around 50% of women and become more common as women get older.


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## Where to get help if you have orgasm problems 

If you're unable to have an orgasm, go to a genitourinary medicine (GUM) clinic or see your doctor. They can check for any physical reasons that may be causing the problem.

If the cause is psychological, it may help to see a sex therapist or doctor. Your doctor can refer you, or you can see one privately. Look for a therapist who is a member of the College of Sexual and Relationship Therapists (COSRT) or a doctor from the Institute of Psychosexual Medicine.

There's more information about orgasms and other sexual problems on our page on [female sexual problems](/condition/goodsex-femalesexualdysfunction/).

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There are both physical and psychological factors that can affect a woman's ability to orgasm. Learn about the possible causes, and who you can consult for help.