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What to do if you relapse after quitting

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Many people who quit smoking relapse at some point. Don't be put off trying again. The key is to learn from what went wrong so you're more likely to succeed next time.

When you quit smoking, it's important to be positive and really believe that you'll be successful.

You shouldn't expect to start smoking again. A slip-up should not mean that you will return to smoking the way you did before: it's an opportunity to learn a bit about yourself and what will help you to be more successful in the future.

If you do relapse, don't worry, it can take a few tries to quit smoking for good. It can be helpful to commit yourself to the "not a single drag" rule. Promise to yourself and others that you will not even have a single drag on a cigarette. By sticking to this simple rule you can guarantee that you won't start smoking again.

Preventing slip-ups

Why is it that some people who have stopped return to smoking?

The main reason is giving in to cravings. These are powerful urges to smoke, often triggered by stress, seeing other people smoking, getting drunk or emotional events such as arguments.

The best way to withstand cravings is a combination of stop smoking medicines and behavioural changes.

It's also important to stay away from people who smoke. Nearly three quarters of all people who relapse do so because they are with other people who are smoking – and this is usually after having asked one of them for a cigarette.

Get practical advice on how to relieve cravings.

Help to prevent relapse

The risk of relapse is highest in the first few weeks after stopping. However, some people can relapse several months, or even years, after stopping smoking.

Avoiding a relapse is best but, if you do give in to temptation, don't despair – really think about what went wrong and plan how you will deal with a similar situation in the future.

If you've had a cigarette or two:

  • Don't give up – you can still avoid a full relapse. Commit to the "not a single drag" rule and get back on with it.
  • Remind yourself why you want to quit. Then take control again.
  • Get support
  • Make it hard to smoke – avoid places where you can easily ask someone for a cigarette. And don't buy a packet.
  • Stay strong – if you're tempted to smoke again, force yourself to wait two hours. Then decide if you really need the cigarette.
  • Keep taking any prescribed stop smoking medicine or using nicotine replacement therapy, unless you go back to regular smoking. It can help you get back on track.

If you've relapsed and are back to regular smoking:

  • Don't become despondent – set a new quit date, maybe in a week or so.
  • Learn from your mistakes – what caused you to slip up? Think of ways you could have avoided smoking. Work on your coping skills so you're prepared next time you're in the same situation.
  • Talk to your doctor or local stop smoking service if you need more help to cope with cravings in your next quit attempt. Read how a stop smoking service can help you quit.
  • Stay positive – making mistakes or slipping up can be a useful experience if you're prepared to learn from it. Remember, you'll be stronger next time because you'll know what to look out for.

Common stop smoking questions

Read the answers to common questions about stopping smoking, including:

  • Why should I stop smoking if I'm pregnant?
  • Who can use nicotine replacement therapy?
  • Where can I get help to stop smoking?

Stop smoking this October

If you stop smoking for 31 days, you're five times more likely to stop for good. This month, why not join the Stoptober quit smoking challenge.

You'll find all the support you need to quit, including:

  • a daily email support programme
  • inspiration from successful quitters
  • the Stoptober app to give you help when you need it
  • instant support from Facebook Messenger when cravings strike

Visit Stoptober now to choose the support to suit you.

If you prefer one-to-one support, that's available too from your local stop smoking service.

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